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1. You both are students and you fell in love with one another. However, you both want to advance your education. Can you have both, love and career?

Nobody says you have to choose either love or career. You can have both. But the important thing is you are able to keep them separate. There is even an advantage to this. You can support each other so you both can achieve your goals. It’s not a bad idea to have someone you can talk you before your Ph. D thesis, right?

2. How do you know if the other person really love you or just play with you?

There is only one way: let time tells. You have to open your eyes and ears to see clearly what kind of person your lover is. Pay attention to how he treats you, your friends, your family members, and other people. Some people can really act so you don’t really know who is real or a fake. The most important is not too hasty to get in bed with your lover. If he or she really love you, he or she will be willing to wait.

3. You have just broken up with your lover, but you couldn’t forget him or her. What can you do?

You see if you forget someone so easily, then you probably have never loved them. Love is really strange. When you want to forget someone, you can’t help but keep thinking about him or her. The only efficient way is to work more and find more things to occupy your minds. If enough time passes, hopefully you can forget about your past love. It’s not a good idea to find new love when you can’t forget your old one. What you do would be just to fill in the loneliness you feel.

4. Do you need mutual trust in your relationship?

Every relationship needs mutual trust in order to work. But you can’t trust anyone right after you met him or her. It needs time to test if you can trust the other person and vice versa. Humans can be easily influenced by many other things. So trust here is relative not absolute.

5. Do you often compare lovers?

Have you ever thought that the grass is always greener on the other side? Do you like to compare your lover to other people? Does your comparison strengthen your relationship or jeopardize it?

You see, love exists in so many shapes and forms. There isn’t any specific rule to follow. So it’s useless to compare your love with other people’s love. If you want to know if that person really loves you, then you should pay attention to he treats you and other people.

6. He is handsome and charming. You love him but he only wants to get in bed with you. What to do?

Don’t let him. He is using his appearance and charm to get what he wants. When he did, he would just abandon you. Not every handsome and charming man is a jerk, but you should watch out so you will not regret in the future.

7. He is a good man and you have known him forever. You love him but he sees you as a friend. How do you tell him how you feel?

There are a millions way to express your feelings. You can pay a little more attention to him. Give him presents on his birthday or give him a little card on Valentine day. Invite him to events that he likes. If you are too desperate, write a love letter and slide under his door. But be careful not to let anybody knows. If after all that and he just wants to be friend with you, then you should forget him and move on. He probably has his heart set on somebody else.

8. What to do to make your lover always be honest with you?

Honest is mutual in romance. If you want him to be honest with you, you must first prove to him that you are always truthful and faithful. You should get him away from situations or circumstances that may make him unfaithful. You should make yourself approachable so he can talk to you without fearing what you would do. Relationship can only be strong if there exists mutual respect and honesty. Does your relationship have those?

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